perf: update otel benchmark dependencies, add otel bound instrument scenarios

[jack-berg]

Updating benchmarks after substantial efforts to improve otel performance under contention. Changes:

• Add scenarios for experimental bound instruments. I understand if you want to reject this until stable.
• Disable exemplars for apples to apples comparison. My understanding is that the prom client_java cases don't have exemplars enabled, can change if I'm wrong.
• Update to opentelemetry-java v1.66.0. If we wait until opentelemetry-java-instrumentation version is released which bundles the v1.66.0 version, the clutter in pom.xml goes away.

Benchmark results on my machine:

Benchmark                                          Mode  Cnt      Score      Error  Units
CounterBenchmark.codahaleIncNoLabels              thrpt   25  95236.680 ±  755.718  ops/s
CounterBenchmark.openTelemetryAdd                 thrpt   25  54598.238 ±  290.633  ops/s
CounterBenchmark.openTelemetryBoundAdd            thrpt   25  82770.849 ±  342.576  ops/s
CounterBenchmark.openTelemetryBoundInc            thrpt   25  85165.317 ±    7.693  ops/s
CounterBenchmark.openTelemetryInc                 thrpt   25  75136.160 ±  552.123  ops/s
CounterBenchmark.openTelemetryIncNoLabels         thrpt   25  85517.108 ±  538.105  ops/s
CounterBenchmark.prometheusAdd                    thrpt   25  84533.092 ±  680.646  ops/s
CounterBenchmark.prometheusInc                    thrpt   25  85135.753 ±   23.184  ops/s
CounterBenchmark.prometheusNoLabelsInc            thrpt   25  85061.556 ±  194.011  ops/s
CounterBenchmark.simpleclientAdd                  thrpt   25   9174.173 ± 1542.709  ops/s
CounterBenchmark.simpleclientInc                  thrpt   25   8860.946 ± 1306.154  ops/s
CounterBenchmark.simpleclientNoLabelsInc          thrpt   25  17502.624 ±  830.879  ops/s
HistogramBenchmark.openTelemetryBoundClassic      thrpt   25  25261.802 ± 6559.742  ops/s
HistogramBenchmark.openTelemetryBoundExponential  thrpt   25   2367.637 ±  381.165  ops/s
HistogramBenchmark.openTelemetryClassic           thrpt   25  28697.261 ± 4082.434  ops/s
HistogramBenchmark.openTelemetryExponential       thrpt   25   1868.494 ±  101.732  ops/s
HistogramBenchmark.prometheusClassic              thrpt   25  23600.746 ± 7292.571  ops/s
HistogramBenchmark.prometheusClassicPerThread     thrpt   25  58674.695 ±   98.620  ops/s
HistogramBenchmark.prometheusClassicSingleThread  thrpt   25  14865.898 ±   12.295  ops/s
HistogramBenchmark.prometheusNative               thrpt   25  10726.819 ±  677.244  ops/s
HistogramBenchmark.simpleclient                   thrpt   25  17340.988 ±  266.176  ops/s

The improvements to otel explicit histogram performance came from a design inspired by prometheus client_java. The code contains attribution. I did manage to slightly improve on the design - If you agree, I'm happy to chat about it and encourage prom client_java to copy any of the bits you think are helpful.